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Surrender, a series documenting humanity’s most universal ritual, uncovers the creative possibilities that arise when both artist and subject relinquish control. Acting as both photographer and guest, Thoss captures fleeting moments of quiet intimacy and released expectation as they naturally unfold around him.
Surrender, a series documenting humanity’s most universal ritual, uncovers the creative possibilities that arise when both artist and subject relinquish control. Acting as both photographer and guest, Thoss captures fleeting moments of quiet intimacy and released expectation as they naturally unfold around him.
Over the years, Thoss has come to see marriage as a journey of deep self-acceptance and mutual surrender. Surrendering means allowing yourself to move away from what you think “should” happen. Releasing the pressure of the expected creates space for genuine, unscripted moments of connection.
Book and Folio Pages
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To build trust and comfort, Thoss meets couples in a relaxed setting before the wedding date for portraits. He attends the welcome dinner/rehearsal to become familiar with the guests, and as part of his own personal ritual, he requests to be seated among them during the meal. This immersive approach helps him connect with the family and guests, resulting in heartfelt photographs that capture the essence of the day. Thoss’s work has been featured in Vogue, Harper’s BAZAAR, InStyle, New York Magazine, and Martha Stewart Living.
En route to a Brooklyn wedding